What age should parental controls be removed?

Parental controls on devices like Apple iPhones typically disable automatically when a child turns 18, as their account transitions from a “Child” to an “Adult” Apple ID, giving them full control over their privacy settings and Screen Time. However, maturity, not just chronological age, is considered the primary factor in determining when to remove parental controls. There is no specific “magical age” when a child is suddenly capable of self-regulation, as brain development continues until approximately age 25.

Experts suggest gradually loosening restrictions around ages 13-14, or 16-17, to allow teenagers to develop essential self-regulation skills before adulthood. This gradual approach enables them to practice responsible digital habits in a safe environment. Open communication and trust between parents and children are vital throughout this process, as strict or prolonged control without justification can foster secrecy and undermine trust. Some parents believe monitoring should extend until age 18 or beyond, especially if a child has not demonstrated sufficient responsibility.